{"id":17214,"date":"2017-05-04T08:00:46","date_gmt":"2017-05-04T12:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/?p=17214"},"modified":"2017-05-04T08:00:46","modified_gmt":"2017-05-04T12:00:46","slug":"behaving-badly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/behaving-badly\/","title":{"rendered":"Behaving Badly"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div id='fullscreen_slider_1'  class='avia-fullscreen-slider main_color   avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_fifth  avia-builder-el-first   container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><a href='#next-section' title='' class='scroll-down-link av-control-default' aria-hidden='true' data-av_icon='\ue877' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello'><\/a><div   data-size='no scaling'  data-lightbox_size='large'  data-animation='slide'  data-conditional_play=''  data-ids='16981'  data-video_counter='0'  data-autoplay='false'  data-bg_slider='true'  data-slide_height='100'  data-handle='av_fullscreen'  data-interval='5'  data-class=' '  data-el_id=''  data-css_id='fullscreen_slider_1'  data-scroll_down='aviaTBscroll_down'  data-control_layout='av-control-default'  data-custom_markup=''  data-perma_caption=''  data-autoplay_stopper=''  data-image_attachment=''  data-min_height='0px'  data-stretch=''  class='avia-slideshow avia-slideshow-1 av-slider-scroll-down-active av-control-default av-default-height-applied avia-slideshow-no scaling av_fullscreen   avia-slide-slider '  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><ul class='avia-slideshow-inner ' style='padding-bottom: 61.2%;' ><li style='background-position:top left;' data-img-url='https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/1500-WP-Behaving-Badly-ogre-no-text.jpg' class=' av-single-slide slide-1 ' ><div data-rel='slideshow-1' class='avia-slide-wrap '   ><div class = \"caption_fullwidth av-slideshow-caption caption_bottom\"><div class = \"container caption_container\"><div class = \"slideshow_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_inner_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_align_caption\"><h2  style='font-size:36px; ' class='avia-caption-title  '  itemprop=\"name\" >BEHAVING BADLY<\/h2><div class='avia-caption-content  av_inherit_color'  itemprop=\"description\"   style='font-size:20px; '><p>Professors probe behavior at its worst<br \/>\nin the workplace<br \/>\nBy Rick Uhlmann<br \/>\nIllustrations by Mark Bleckley<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><div id='after_full_slider_1'  class='main_color av_default_container_wrap container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div class='container' ><div class='template-page content  av-content-small alpha units'><div class='post-entry post-entry-type-page post-entry-17214'><div class='entry-content-wrapper clearfix'><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-1  el_after_av_fullscreen  el_before_av_three_fifth  avia-builder-el-first  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_three_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><blockquote>\n<p>Having an infuriated high school basketball coach launch a chair at you, or a restaurant supervisor who manages through intimidation and shame can have life-altering consequences.<br \/>\nThose behaviors are part of what influenced two professors in Clemson\u2019s College of Business to better understand what prompts abusive behavior by those in positions of authority, and they\u2019ve spent a good part of their careers looking for answers.<br \/>\nKristin Scott and Tom Zagenczyk, associate professors\u00a0in the business school\u2019s Department of Management,\u00a0say disruptive, gossipy, retaliatory and bullying behaviors often associated with adolescents are all too common in the workplace, and they exact a heavy toll on businesses and their employees.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019d like to think in the 21st century people have evolved and learned to work side-by-side in a civil manner, but that frequently isn\u2019t the case,\u201d says Scott. \u201cThat kind of disruptive behavior is more prevalent than most people realize, and it exacts a toll on business productivity and employees\u2019 emotional well-being.\u201d<br \/>\nScott and Zagenczyk are Clemson\u2019s resident experts on workplace dysfunction. Whether it\u2019s a boss who bullies, employees who retaliate, work-family conflict issues or snubbed co-workers, these two have collaborated on extensive organizational behavior research and its impact on workers and their employers.<br \/>\nIn the last decade, their research surveyed several thousand employed adults through online questionnaires and other means. Most of the research involved field studies within organizations where employees were surveyed across multiple points in time, usually over three- to four-month periods.<br \/>\nThe two researchers have seen and heard it all about strained relationships between employees, or with their bosses, through their academic endeavors and corporate experiences.<br \/>\n\u201cThere are many dynamics that make it difficult for some to play nice in the workplace sand box,\u201d says Zagenczyk. \u201cBut there is usually an underlying influence that\u2019s causing behavior problems with the bad boss or disruptive employee. It\u2019s often a function of what\u2019s going on at home, and the fallout hits them.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_three_fifth  el_before_av_fullscreen  avia-builder-el-last  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><!-- close content main div --><\/div><\/div><div id='fullscreen_slider_2'  class='avia-fullscreen-slider main_color   avia-builder-el-5  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth   slider-not-first container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><a href='#next-section' title='' class='scroll-down-link av-control-default' aria-hidden='true' data-av_icon='\ue877' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello'><\/a><div   data-size='no scaling'  data-lightbox_size='large'  data-animation='slide'  data-conditional_play=''  data-ids='16978'  data-video_counter='0'  data-autoplay='false'  data-bg_slider='true'  data-slide_height='100'  data-handle='av_fullscreen'  data-interval='5'  data-class=' '  data-el_id=''  data-css_id='fullscreen_slider_2'  data-scroll_down='aviaTBscroll_down'  data-control_layout='av-control-default'  data-custom_markup=''  data-perma_caption=''  data-autoplay_stopper=''  data-image_attachment=''  data-min_height='0px'  data-stretch=''  class='avia-slideshow avia-slideshow-2 av-slider-scroll-down-active av-control-default av-default-height-applied avia-slideshow-no scaling av_fullscreen   avia-slide-slider '  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><ul class='avia-slideshow-inner ' style='padding-bottom: 66.75%;' ><li style='background-position:top left;' data-img-url='https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/Kristin_Scott_017.jpg' class=' av-single-slide slide-1 ' ><div data-rel='slideshow-2' class='avia-slide-wrap '   ><div class = \"caption_fullwidth av-slideshow-caption caption_left caption_left_framed caption_framed\"><div class = \"container caption_container\"><div class = \"slideshow_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_inner_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_align_caption\"><div class='avia-caption-content  av_inherit_color'  itemprop=\"description\"   style='font-size:18px; '><p>\u201cBeing in corporate human resources for a number of years, I was often subjected to people who exhibited bad behavior. It actually drove me to want to further understand why adults, many of them professionals, resorted to that kind of behavior in the workplace.&#8221;<br \/>\n\u2014 Kristin Scott<br \/>\nAssociate Professor of Management<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><div id='after_full_slider_2'  class='main_color av_default_container_wrap container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div class='container' ><div class='template-page content  av-content-small alpha units'><div class='post-entry post-entry-type-page post-entry-17214'><div class='entry-content-wrapper clearfix'><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_fullscreen  el_before_av_three_fifth  avia-builder-el-first  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_three_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-7  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>Motivated by Experience<\/h3>\n<p>Zagenczyk and Scott credit their own personal experiences for their involvement in researching workplace issues.<br \/>\n\u201cBeing in corporate human resources for a number of years, I was often subjected to people who exhibited bad behavior,\u201d Scott says. \u201cIt actually drove me to want to further understand why adults, many of them professionals, resorted to that kind of behavior in the workplace. Those kinds of issues often fell on my lap and, as an HR professional, I not only had to sort through them but was also left cleaning up the mess. In a way, it sort of inspired me to want to figure out how to prevent it from happening.\u201d<br \/>\nA catalyst for Zagenczyk\u2019s desire to better understand petulant behavior by adults occurred at an earlier age.<br \/>\n\u201cBasketball was my sport as an adolescent,\u201d he says. \u201cI was on our high school basketball team in Pennsylvania and had a coach who attended Bob Knight basketball camps to learn coaching strategies. At one of our first practices, he challenged our mental toughness and in the process went on a profanity-laced tirade, then threw a basketball that broke a ball rack, and threw a chair through a window.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u201cIn a way, it fascinated me how a grown man could exhibit such poor leadership and behavior that he would lash out at a bunch of teenagers by swearing and throwing things at them. Though he didn\u2019t motivate me as a basketball player, it did provoke me to better understand that kind of behavior.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-9  el_after_av_three_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-10  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_three_fifth  column-top-margin\" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_three_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-11  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth  column-top-margin\" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>A Costly Epidemic<\/h3>\n<p>Scott and Zagenczyk will be the first to tell you that the prevalence of discord in the workplace comes with a price tag.<br \/>\nThe Workplace Bullying Institute calls abuse among employees \u201can American epidemic.\u201d In a national survey conducted in 2014, the institute found:<\/p>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: circle\">\n<li>27 percent of employees have current or past direct experience with abusive conduct at work.<\/li>\n<li>72 percent of the American public is aware of workplace bullying. \u2022 Bosses are still in the majority of bullies.<\/li>\n<li>72 percent of employers deny, discount, encourage, rationalize or defend the abuse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Another study conducted by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cpp.com\/pdfs\/CPP_Global_Human_Capital_Report_Workplace_Conflict.pdf\">CPP Global Human Capital Report in 2008<\/a> found that U.S. employees spend nearly three hours a week dealing with conflict. That study estimated conflict issues amounted to approximately $359 billion in paid hours (based on $17.95 hourly earnings), or the equivalent of 385 million working days in a year.<br \/>\nThe study also showed 25 percent of employees said avoiding conflict led to sickness or absence from work. Equally alarming, nearly 10 percent reported workplace conflict led to project failure, and more than one-third said conflict resulted in someone leaving the company.<br \/>\n\u201cThere\u2019s no question, bad behavior by a boss or between employees is costing organizations billions of dollars each year,\u201d says Zagenczyk. \u201cA bad apple on the team can diminish productivity, prompt sick days and even lead to turnover, which is costly in hiring and training replacements.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Through all of her years of research, Scott is still surprised at the prevalence of abuse among workforces.<br \/>\n\u201cI am still taken aback by how these behavior topics resonate with people and how widespread they are. So many work cultures allow this to happen,\u201d Scott says. \u201cAs adults, we know that fear, intimidation and degradation is not a successful approach to managing people, but it goes unrestrained in many organizations.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>She says certain business sectors, such as the health care and financial industries, are more susceptible to abusive cultures. \u201cThe frequent face-to-face interactions are more prevalent and consequently more prone to stress, so these industries generally see abusive behavior more than others. However, when it comes to bullying, the most vulnerable sectors are the hospitality industry and education.\u201d<br \/>\nLike most of us, the two researchers have first-hand experiences with conflict in the workplace, both during their undergraduate years. \u201cWhen I was 19, I grew a beard while working in a bank,\u201d says Zagenczyk. \u201cThough the bank didn\u2019t have a rule against beards, my supervisor hated them. So, he made me change bathroom urinal deodorizer cakes until I shaved the beard.\u201d<br \/>\nThough Zagenczyk held out a week and a half before shaving, he did learn a lesson. \u201cI learned there were informal rules and that if you don\u2019t adhere to norms in certain cultures, there are consequences.\u201d<br \/>\nIn college, Scott worked at a mom-and-pop restaurant where she had a boss who was nicknamed \u201cSatan.\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cHis leadership style was to humiliate and shame people to get them to perform,\u201d says Scott. \u201cIt was a horrible culture that he had created. The straw that broke the camel\u2019s back for me was when one of our servers dropped a pizza on the floor that she was about to serve. She was so scared about how the manager would react, that she served the pizza to the customer. That was an <em>aha<\/em> moment to me at a young age about how not to manage people.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-13  el_after_av_three_fifth  el_before_av_fullscreen  avia-builder-el-last  column-top-margin\" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><!-- close content main div --><\/div><\/div><div id='fullscreen_slider_3'  class='avia-fullscreen-slider main_color   avia-builder-el-14  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth   slider-not-first container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div   data-size='extra_large'  data-lightbox_size='large'  data-animation='slide'  data-conditional_play=''  data-ids='16979'  data-video_counter='0'  data-autoplay='false'  data-bg_slider='true'  data-slide_height='100'  data-handle='av_fullscreen'  data-interval='5'  data-class=' '  data-el_id=''  data-css_id='fullscreen_slider_3'  data-scroll_down=''  data-control_layout='av-control-default'  data-custom_markup=''  data-perma_caption=''  data-autoplay_stopper=''  data-image_attachment=''  data-min_height='0px'  data-stretch=''  data-default-height='100'  class='avia-slideshow avia-slideshow-3  av-control-default av-default-height-applied avia-slideshow-extra_large av_fullscreen   avia-slide-slider '  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><ul class='avia-slideshow-inner ' style='padding-bottom: 66.75%;' ><li style='background-position:top left;' data-img-url='https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/Scott_Zagenczyk_062.jpg' class=' av-single-slide slide-1 ' ><div data-rel='slideshow-3' class='avia-slide-wrap '   ><div class = \"caption_fullwidth av-slideshow-caption caption_right caption_right_framed caption_framed\"><div class = \"container caption_container\"><div class = \"slideshow_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_inner_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_align_caption\"><div class='avia-caption-content  av_inherit_color'  itemprop=\"description\"   style='font-size:18px; '><p>\u201cThere\u2019s no question, bad behavior by a boss or between employees is costing organizations billions of dollars each year. A bad apple on the team can diminish productivity, prompt sick days and even lead to turnover, which is costly in hiring and training replacements.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2014 Tom Zagenczyk<br \/>\nAssociate Professor of Management<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><div id='after_full_slider_3'  class='main_color av_default_container_wrap container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div class='container' ><div class='template-page content  av-content-small alpha units'><div class='post-entry post-entry-type-page post-entry-17214'><div class='entry-content-wrapper clearfix'><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-15  el_after_av_fullscreen  el_before_av_three_fifth  avia-builder-el-first  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_three_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-16  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>No Silver Bullet<\/h3>\n<p>Zagenczyk says many external factors contribute to unprofessional behavior among co-workers. During the economic downturn, for example, cutbacks prompted people to do more with less, causing stress and resulting in friction among co-workers and their superiors. But he cautions about rushing to judgment on a person because of how they act at work.<br \/>\n\u201cWe tend to attribute a behavior as just who these people are. Frequently, behavior is a function of what\u2019s going on at home or with someone\u2019s supervisor at work,\u201d says Zagenczyk. \u201cDon\u2019t automatically assume a person behaving badly is a jerk or has a dysfunctional personality. Often, it\u2019s extraneous factors like relationships, culture or climate that affect someone\u2019s attitude. But for many it\u2019s easier to believe the behavior is a function of who they are.\u201d<br \/>\nZagenczyk is quick to point out that a supervisor\u2019s abusive behavior may be related more to deep-seated issues, than to current problems at home or with workplace relationships. A study he and Scott conducted showed bosses who hollered, or were generally considered abusive by their co-workers, were subjected to bad behavior by caregivers during their adolescence.<br \/>\n\u201cIn that study we asked supervisory employees how often before 18 years of age they were subjected to yelling or insults. The findings showed supervisors who reported being undermined growing up tended to have subordinates who said their supervisor exhibited abusive tendencies.\u201d<br \/>\nZagenczyk says negative emotions experienced during adolescence don\u2019t just go away. There is generally fallout that is manifested in adulthood.<br \/>\n\u201cDisplaced aggression is very common among those whose adolescence was tumultuous,\u201d he says. \u201cPeople who have aggressive, demeaning parents believe that type of behavior is acceptable and model after them. Aggressing against others, such as co-workers, is a convenient way to release negative emotions.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Scott adds that tension between employees is often a byproduct of what\u2019s at stake. \u201cCareers are livelihoods, and for many it defines who they are, so there is a lot at stake,\u201d she says. \u201cIt seems people have a need for control when they have things at risk. So, if things don\u2019t play out right, it tends to invoke fear, anger and frustration, which can lead to retaliation in the workplace.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Zagenczyk and Scott say skewed work-life balance also creates stress, which can lead to retaliatory behavior against co-workers. One study they conducted showed that women are more likely than men to vent their frustration over work-life imbalances at work.<br \/>\n\u201cThe study found women experiencing work-family conflicts are more likely to respond negatively at the root of the perceived problem because they tend to be more protective of their family role than men,\u201d says Scott. \u201cMen, on the other hand, tend to be more protective of the work role and are less likely to blame the employer for their inability to meet family or personal obligations.\u201d<br \/>\nScott says there\u2019s no silver bullet to ending abusive and obstructive attitudes in the workplace. And if organizations allow a toxic culture to exist, they will pay a price for it.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u201cThere are ways to address how people deal with stress to help mitigate the negative fallout, and one key factor is a person\u2019s emotional intelligence,\u201d she says. \u201cPeople can be trained, through meditation and other ways, to calm their minds by focusing on the present, not the past. It can help bring emotions under control so you can think through your actions. However, it doesn\u2019t work for everyone. If you don\u2019t have the social skills, or have personal issues, the problem may be harder to overcome.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-18  el_after_av_three_fifth  el_before_av_fullscreen  avia-builder-el-last  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><!-- close content main div --><\/div><\/div><div id='fullscreen_slider_4'  class='avia-fullscreen-slider main_color   avia-builder-el-19  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth   slider-not-first container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><a href='#next-section' title='' class='scroll-down-link av-control-default' aria-hidden='true' data-av_icon='\ue877' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello'><\/a><div   data-size='extra_large'  data-lightbox_size='large'  data-animation='slide'  data-conditional_play=''  data-ids='17270'  data-video_counter='0'  data-autoplay='false'  data-bg_slider='true'  data-slide_height='100'  data-handle='av_fullscreen'  data-interval='5'  data-class=' '  data-el_id=''  data-css_id='fullscreen_slider_4'  data-scroll_down='aviaTBscroll_down'  data-control_layout='av-control-default'  data-custom_markup=''  data-perma_caption=''  data-autoplay_stopper=''  data-image_attachment=''  data-min_height='0px'  data-stretch=''  data-default-height='100'  class='avia-slideshow avia-slideshow-4 av-slider-scroll-down-active av-control-default av-default-height-applied avia-slideshow-extra_large av_fullscreen   avia-slide-slider '  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><ul class='avia-slideshow-inner ' style='padding-bottom: 62.5333333333%;' ><li style='background-position:top left;' data-img-url='https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/Behaving-BadlyLadies-1500x938.jpg' class=' av-single-slide slide-1 ' ><div data-rel='slideshow-4' class='avia-slide-wrap '   ><div class = \"caption_fullwidth av-slideshow-caption caption_right caption_right_framed caption_framed\"><div class = \"container caption_container\"><div class = \"slideshow_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_inner_caption\"><div class = \"slideshow_align_caption\"><div class='avia-caption-content  av_inherit_color'  itemprop=\"description\"   style='font-size:18px; '><p>&#8221; . . . we asked supervisory employees how often before 18 years of age they were subjected to yelling or insults. The findings showed supervisors who reported being undermined growing up tended to have subordinates who said their supervisor exhibited abusive tendencies.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2014Tom Zagenczyk<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><div id='after_full_slider_4'  class='main_color av_default_container_wrap container_wrap sidebar_right' style=' '  ><div class='container' ><div class='template-page content  av-content-small alpha units'><div class='post-entry post-entry-type-page post-entry-17214'><div class='entry-content-wrapper clearfix'><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-20  el_after_av_fullscreen  el_before_av_three_fifth  avia-builder-el-first  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_three_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-21  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_fifth  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>Perception vs. Reality<\/h3>\n<p>Zagenczyk says one of the catalysts for workplace discord can be differences in generational values. When each generation can put aside its biases of the other and see the talents and strengths each brings to the organization, the less friction there will be.<br \/>\nA perception that strikes a nerve among millennials, Zagenczyk said, is that they are narcissistic and entitled. Zagenczyk doesn\u2019t buy it. \u201cThere\u2019s no empirical evidence of differences between them and other generations in the workforce,\u201d he says. \u201cHowever, stories are written about them being different, so people think it\u2019s true. [pullquote]Millennials are very aware of those perceptions and will tell you they\u2019re willing to work just as hard as anyone. It seems they come into the workforce with strikes against them because judgments have already been made about them.[\/pullquote]\u201d<br \/>\nBeing respectful to your co-workers is a good start at creating a sense of decorum at work. Scott and Zagenczyk suggest a number of things worth considering to make work more tolerable and to better understand why people act out.<\/p>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: circle\">\n<li>Don\u2019t jump to conclusions about people by making assumptions that their behavior is a function of their personality. They may not be the jerk you think they are.<\/li>\n<li>There\u2019s a lot at stake in your workplace, and you don\u2019t always have control. Some things have to be emotionally let go so that they don\u2019t negatively affect your personal or professional life.<\/li>\n<li>People in managerial positions can be a solution to a toxic work environment by creating a culture of fairness, tolerance, acceptance and support.<\/li>\n<li>Because so much time is spent at work, it becomes part of one\u2019s identity. It has implications way beyond workplace. If bosses aren\u2019t sensitive to that, it can have dramatic implications and set the tone for how everyone else acts.<\/li>\n<li>Supervisors can make a difference to someone with a bad home life. Work can become a respite for those people, but it\u2019s on the boss to create that kind of a culture.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>Rick Uhlmann is the director of media relations\/public information in the College of Business.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fifth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-23  el_after_av_three_fifth  el_before_av_one_fourth  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fourth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-24  el_after_av_one_fifth  el_before_av_one_half  column-top-margin\" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_half  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-25  el_after_av_one_fourth  el_before_av_one_fourth  column-top-margin\" style='border-radius:0px; '><div   class='av_promobox  avia-button-no   avia-builder-el-26  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '>\t\t<div class='avia-promocontent'><p>\n<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/clemson.world\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Behaving-Badly-ladies.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-16976\" src=\"https:\/\/clemson.world\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Behaving-Badly-ladies-235x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"126\" height=\"174\" \/><\/a>Do you have a story of a dysfunctional workplace or a bad boss to share? Share it below in the &#8220;Leave a reply&#8221; section.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\t<\/div><\/div><br \/>\n<div class=\"flex_column av_one_fourth  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-27  el_after_av_one_half  avia-builder-el-last  column-top-margin\" style='border-radius:0px; '><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Professors probe behavior at its worst in the workplace.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":16981,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[413,671,881,1238,1542,1545,1748,2384,2386,3040,3411,3412],"coauthors":[],"class_list":["post-17214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-features","tag-bosses","tag-clemson-college-of-business","tag-cw-spring-2017","tag-features-spring-2017","tag-human-capital","tag-human-resources","tag-kristin-scott","tag-research","tag-research-feature","tag-tom-zagenczyk","tag-workplace-bullying","tag-workplace-dysfunction"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/1500-WP-Behaving-Badly-ogre-no-text.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17214"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17214\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17214"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clemson.world\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=17214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}